Saturday, October 17, 2009

A Not-So-Typical Vacation

Still jet-lagged from an excursion to Hong Kong, I want to recount and share some of my more important memories while they're still fresh in my mind. I went to visit my friend Krista who just moved there, as well as experience Asia, something I've been longing to do for a while. But I also went to experience God through overseas ministry. It wasn't a missions trip, per se, but that was a large intent in my travel.

I was able to taste many good (and strange) foods, see beautiful scenery and very crowded streets, meet people from around the world and spend quality time with friends. But what was the most memorable and valuable part of my trip were the nights we spent telling people about Jesus, praying for them, and observing the workings of the world of sex trafficking.

One night we  headed down to SoHo, (South of Hollywood Street) where locals and foreigners alike congregate in the evenings for drinks at local bars, restaurants and British pubs. We met some guys our age who we talked to about our beliefs (who eventually left obviously laughing at us and wanting to find some more enticing women :)), some older Christian Filipino men who play in a band at a restaurant, and a Muslim man who had never heard about Jesus. That conversation was the most exciting, seeing him discover things about the bible (which he'd never seen) and about Jesus (who he'd barely heard of) and say that he believed what we were saying. The language barrier made it difficult to know if he really understood, but he agreed to join us for church that weekend. Unfortunately he didn't end up showing, but we'll keep praying that Krista sees him again and that God used that opportunity to open his eyes.

Krista is also starting a ministry to prostitutes through her church in Hong Kong (maybe Broken Hearts - HK?!) and we got to start the praying and laying the ground work together. Before we went I did a little research one afternoon while I was waiting for her to get off of work, where I read about the abundant female Filipino prostitutes working on the streets of Wan Chai, Hong Kong's red light district. It is fairly well-known information (since I found it in about 2 seconds on Google) that many of them are victims of sex trafficking. They're told they can come to Hong Kong for more opportunity and better work, they will just have a debt to pay back to the people who offer to bring them over. Then they get stuck working in these bars as dancers and prostitutes, forced to work there to 'pay off their debt'. But really, the debt is so large that it can't really be paid off (this is the typical method of sex trafficking in general, not just with these particular women).

I've read, heard, studied a decent amount about sex trafficking and prostitution, but it almost surprised me how 'by the book' things were when we stopped and observed. (I do ministry with prostitutes in Hollywood, but most of them are men and are there by their own choice, so the culture is much different).

The first night there we spent most of our time prayer walking, treading on unfamiliar ground and wanting to be led by God before jumping in. We quickly found several jam-packed streets laden with neon signs advertising dancers, strip clubs, bars, girls. But the signs were hardly necessary as the young girls sitting outside of these places in very little clothing was advertisement enough.

As we passed by one restaurant and bar (not a strip club or anything like that), we saw a woman sitting off to the side of the building in the shadows, not looking very well. We decided to approach her to ask if we could pray for anything. She didn't understand us very well, but as we began to repeat the question, a man working at the restaurant quickly interrupted to ask what we were doing and if he could help. We told him we just wanted to pray for her and he eventually left. She didn't understand much and said she didn't need prayer, so we left and were once again asked by a girl working there if she could help. It was  a very interesting interaction, because this was not an obvious place that prostitutes would work, but they way they hovered over this woman and acted so protectively, it seemed she was definitely being watched.

Another general aspect of this business is that the women are going to have someone - either a man or a madame who's in charge - watching them and protecting their source of income. This interaction seemed to fit the bill, even as the average passerby would never notice anything out of the ordinary.

We proceeded past many other bars and clubs, filled and surrounded by men who looked at us with the same glances they would likely cast towards girls in the clubs. They had one thing on the mind and it was hard to avoid their perverse eyes and approaches. It's absolutely disgusting to see the amount of men down there going into clubs, approaching girls on the street, getting off of work and heading there in their suits, on vacation cheating on their wives and girlfriends...If it were not for the demand, there would be no business in sex trafficking. But it's a filthy truth of this fallen world that there's so high a demand, the problem will probably never go away.

As we neared the end of our night down there, praying while our eyes filled with tears, we saw another woman on the street who we couldn't tell if she was working or not. She was alone, not by a club, so we decided to talk to her to find out more. She was very friendly and spoke English, so we chatted for a while. She was meeting up with friends and later on told us about one of her friends that was being forced to prostitute to pay off her debt. She didn't seem all too concerned with it, like it was just a fact of life and something that had to be done in order to have a better life than in the Philippines. She told us that she worked at a company in Hong Kong and is a Christian, more by religion than relationship by the sound of it. Krista was able to give her the name of her church and number so that the woman could come sometime, and the conversation ended well as she went to meet her friends.

Our first night out we got a good taste of what to expect and a bit of what the culture is like down there, and left hungry for more because it was clear as daylight that this street seriously needs some Jesus. So for the sake of keeping this blog from getting to long, I'll go into our second night in another blog entry.


Friday, October 16, 2009

Sowing in tears, reaping with joy


Broken Hearts often refers to our ministry (and often our lives in general) as being a 'link in the chain'. For any Christian, at various times in non-believers lives, we plant seeds, we water, we sow...but God ultimately gives the increase in his way, his time, and in his power. Getting to be a part of any step in the process is a privilege...but I'd say few of us enjoy the sowing as much as we do the reaping. The reaping is exciting and faith-building and 'glamorous'. Being a link in the chain of that process just doesn't have the same hype or recognition. It's not always clear that God's at work, that our obedience to share Him is even doing anything.




It can be downright discouraging. If people ask about your ministry and you can name the number of people on one hand who've come to know Christ in several years, it seems to leave an unpleasant taste in the mouth of the person asking. When donors give to an organization, they aren't particularly inspired to give to a ministry who can't show numbers of lives changed or quantify impact.




More than once (or twice... or ten times), I've asked "what am I doing? What are we doing out here?" We see people take big steps towards change or towards Jesus, and then see them relapse into their old lifestyle...and it all feels pointless. But God will often do something major after those occurrences that leave me humbled and pretty embarrassed when I realize he was at work the whole time - I just couldn't see...and I was questioning him and his sovereignty!




God knows what he's doing, and if he wants us to be the middle man in the process of a man or woman coming to know him, then that's up to him. We just have to be faithful. But when we actually get to see someone through the process and see the end result...well, words can hardly describe how exciting that is! In fact, because we don't get this opportunity too often, when it happens it's almost hard to believe. Seeing someone change so drastically is nothing short of a miracle.




Ok...that was a long intro to the real story behind those thoughts that arose in my mind today. I went up to Hollywood today to attend church with Antquan and our friend 'Ravi' (which is another story for another time, but he's one who's being discipled daily and getting his life on track and quite the encouragement to me as well as our team). 'Jake' had planned on coming to church, but everyone in their rehab program had been put on restriction and he was unable to leave. So instead I went to visit him after church.




I've only talked to him/seen him a handful of times since he entered rehab. But each conversation astounds me. Especially when I think back to the day I first met him. In fact, as we chatted today in the outside patio/garden area of the home, he referred to that day saying, "I was drawn to you that first day we met. There was something compelling about you guys. And luckily I was still sensitive enough  to that..I was hard on the outside, but I was still soft inside." The context of that was that God had saved him before he'd gone too far down the path of drug addiction and prostitution, and his background in the church made him curious and sensitive to God's spirit working through us.




The rest of the conversation was about his deepening relationship with God, his prayer life, about his past and family history that had brought him to the place of drug-dependence; tears over the pain that he was learning to deal with. He said he's starting to tear down his walls and become softer and more real, and that the guys in the house are seeing him change. He said after talking with me on the phone the other day something had changed and he'd started to acknowledge some of his issues. He noted that he's the only person in the house not taking meds and attributes it to his relationship with God which is giving him peace and allowing him to heal and deal with those issues rather than medicate them. And that he hopes the guys will see that difference in him and want to know about it. He talked about God having  a plan for him, pondered about doing ministry in some way again one day, and about the opportunity to try everything the world has to offer which has brought him back around to realizing that none of it compares to God.




And that's all just a portion of our recent conversations. The words that come out of his mouth with no prompting are amazing; his vulnerability and willingness to get help are inspiring, and I'm getting to see God's work first hand...changing  a man day-to-day for His glory. 




He even told me that no one in the program is allowed to engage in any sexual behavior, either, and so they're all required to practice celibacy and restraint while living in a gay community. At first I was slightly disappointed about the fact that he was entering a gay/transgender rehab program (and there are still issues to be concerned about with that, of course), but never realized how even that might be a blessing for him. He's required to function there like God would require of him in normal life. If he has homosexual desires, God will either change him or help him to refrain from those desires as he's sanctified. And in a secular, gay rehab, he's practicing how he'll have to live when he gets out.




The sweet, thoughtful, focused young man is much different from the tweaked-out, hardened individual whose apathy and self-destruction once brought me to that angry, question-asking place of "What are we doing, God?! What are YOU doing?!"




Apparently God knew what he was doing. And graciously allows me to still be a part of it...while changing me in this process as well. :)




"When the Lord brought back the captive ones of Zion, we were like those who dream.

Then our mouth was filled with laughter and our otngue with joyful shouting; then they said among the nations,

"The Lord has done great things for them."

the Lord has done great things for us; we are glad.

Restore our captivity, O Lord, as the stream in the south.

Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting.

He who goes to and fro weeping, carrying his bag of seed shall indeed come again with a shout of joy, bringing his sheaves with him." ~ Psalm 126